If you love someone,

Ask him for nothing.

Don’t hold him from his destiny.

Don’t keep him from going off in search of his own answers.

Don’t ask him for commitment.

You will know commitment is real when it is something given willingly, and not as something obligatory.

Don’t ask him for promises.

If you are patient, if you have faith, you will know in your heart when the right time for promises has come. And when that time arrives, then you will see that you have both lost nothing by setting each other free, and have instead gained a richer, fuller life, a wealth of experiences, and a stronger certainty of your desires.But should he not return to you, then life hasn’t cheated you because no promises were broken. Your bitterness will not last long, and you will feel thankful and blessed that at the very least, this beautiful soul has colored your life, that knowing him has already made life infinitely more meaningful.

By setting a person free, you run a risk of him not returning.

But always remember that you found him beautiful precisely because he was free. People are like sunlight. You can feel their warmth, and their glow, but you can’t hold them in your hand and keep them with you forever. People choose to stay. But a choice is made more meaningful when it is made despite so many other options.

Today, I was thinking about relationships.

In life, we meet so many people. All different in their own way. All changing us in their own way. And all leaving us with their own sweet memories. Why can't it be that people stay?

Because ultimately, all that we live for are relationships. Whatever that we do today is majorly for our own selfish self. But somewhere down, every action, every step, every decision that we take is influenced by someone we know, someone whom we care for or someone who expects.

Consciously or unconsciously we are moulded by our relations even though we know very well that none of this is going to last for really long.

2 months, 2 years 2 decades maybe...and then..poof!

All is reduced to nothingness once again.

Everything is so fleeting, but still we keep hoping,still we keep believing and still we trust.

Whom do we trust?

Ourselves?

Or the ones we want to trust?

I don't know. But I want to know.

Why is it that when we are completely at ease with everything going around us...when I am happy and you are happy why does something have to come in between and screw up the peace?

Why does the negativity in the world have to find a vent in the positivity in my life. Why are people so jealous. Why are people so narrow-minded. Why can't friendship be understood by all as a state of mutual compatibility and a comfort zone which has no complications.

I don't know.

But. I want to know.

''I write."

For :

• Joy
• Satisfaction
• Relief
• Rescue
• Expression
• Search
• Loss
• Happiness
• Understanding
• Comprehending
• Explaining
• Interpreting
• Exploring
• Me
• You

So, I'm finally taking my hobby onto a greater level.Something which I always thought of implementing but never did.I'm FINALLY starting my own blog. I just wish and pray and hope..that this continues and stays with me, just like my love for writing.

Keep coming back for more :)